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Planning an LGBTQ+ wedding in Hawaiʻi
Same license, same process, and how to find vendors who will celebrate you fully.
Same-sex marriage has been legal in Hawaiʻi since 2013 (background). The license process is identical for every couple: apply online, appear together in person, and marry within 30 days. See our marriage license guide.
Vetting vendors
Legal equality does not guarantee every vendor's enthusiasm. A few direct questions save a lot of stress:
- Have you worked with same-sex couples, and can we see that work?
- Are your contracts and forms written with inclusive language?
- Will your officiant adapt the ceremony wording to us?
- For venues: are there any restrictions we should know about?
Inclusive listings
We add an "Inclusive" marker only when a business confirms its policy directly with us. We never assume it. If you are a vendor, you can claim your listing and add it.
Intimate options
Many couples prefer smaller ceremonies: a private estate, a garden, or a short beach ceremony followed by dinner. Read how beach ceremony permits work before you choose the beach.